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The Shame Game..and how to stop playing

One amazing friend of mine shared with me the following story.

At a moment when she had just received a hurtful and careless comment that really upset her. She had gone to the mirror and watched herself cry.

She shared with me that she had decided that instead of shutting down and getting lost in the shame ,instead she met her feelings with an attitude of love.

Instead of judging the pain, she asked it what it needed. It told her that it needed love! So she gave that love through her simple willingness to see it and meet it with compassion and acceptance.

This is an inspiring example of how to meet our shame, and move into a space of self love, instead of playing 'the shame game'.

The shame game...

Think of a time when you felt really ashamed..

Did you feel small and worthless?

The force of shame tends to hold a strong power over us, sucking our life force into its shadowy grip.

There are many kinds of shame, some we inherit, some we develop in our formative years,...

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Take me deeper or don't take me at all

Last night I symbolically threw my shame in the river, I threw in the subtle shame I realised I hold on some level about being single. As if maybe that makes me somehow inadequate or undesirable or just not good enough at manifesting!

I released this unhelpful thought form, because it is not based on truth.

If I really wanted a man, I could ‘get’ one, I could manipulate reality somehow and find a body to share my bed with, but the truth is that I do not just want any body. I want a man who can truly open me and open TO me. A man who can really see me, a man who is dedicated to growth and truth in the same way that I am.

I want a partner who takes me deeper than I can go myself.

I am determined not to purchase the idea that men are ‘behind’ the women in terms of growing up and showing up (although I could easily rustle up a hell of a lot of evidence to prove this) and my intention in writing about this subject is not to point out that men...

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How I un-numbed my yoni

Yes it was numb, I knew that and that was a disturbing and confusing fact. It is not that my yoni (aka my vagina) had no feeling at all, yet it was certainly numb, and I knew there must be SO much more sensation and pleasure available to me as a woman.

I had no idea why it was desensitized or how to heal this, in fact I had no idea that what I needed was healing. No one ever spoke about this! I assumed everyone else was a naturally vibrant sexual diva and I was the freak. I felt resigned to my fate at some level, as I quite simply did not know what to do and felt too ashamed to ask anyone,

I felt like something must be wrong with me…

Does any of this sound familiar?

 A JOURNEY OF RECLAMATION

Fortunately life took me on an interesting journey to ‘un-numb’ my yoni. And I would love to share this with you, as I am sure I wasn’t the first, nor will I be the last to experience this phenomenon.

I want every woman to know the delicious pleasure of having a...

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